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    Eight Years of Provocative Public Speaking

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    A little manual assistance for some of that fat redistribution.

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    My, what’s time? Merely a tick on the clock.

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    Is it any wonder why I truly hate sports?

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    A Skirt From Great Britain

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    Wait, What the Shit? Is the World Ending Soon?

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    Kelly’s Doing An Outfit Post, Really? She Couldn’t.

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    It Was Really Just a Vulva Surgery

    February 11, 2024 Read More
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    Seriously? Male Privilege

    I literally raised my hand and put my palm out towards his face and said “I seriously cannot do this,” and I walked away while asking my wife to take over.  She kindly went…

    December 17, 2019
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    Ally?

    I am going to try this post and see how it goes.  My mission is to try and retell the events, without making too much of a judgement.  That is going to be hard,…

    November 30, 2019
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    Supporting Local LGBT+ Youth

    This is what I wore to a local LGBT+ event.  I live near Visalia, Ca and our main resource center is The Source.  For the past few years they have been doing a fundraising…

    November 10, 2019
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    Electrolysis Reality Check

    June of 2018 I went to my first electro appointment. They started on my face. It took over 20 hours to fully clear my entire face 1 time. Yesterday they cleared my face in…

    November 3, 2019
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    Advocating

    Okay so the photos are horrible. Apparently my wife and I specialize in blurry photos! Ha! However, the day was not horrible. I spent the morning teaching my middle schoolers and then we jetted…

    October 26, 2019
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    Being a Transgender Teacher

    People often ask me what it is like to be a transgender middle school math teacher, this is what it is like.  Not enough of an explanation?  Okay….. I’ll give you a bit more…

    October 15, 2019
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    My Outfit – Yoga Dress Pants

    Top – White House Black Market – Similar @Amazon, @WHBM Pants – Tribal – Similar @Amazon, @Zappos Shoes – Unisa – Similar @Amazon, @DSW Wow, the last time I put up an outfit post…

    September 20, 2019
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An adorable morning moo moo! An adorable morning moo moo!
Such a decadent meal! So good!! Such a decadent meal! So good!!
I got to see my Boob Fairy for the girl's final ch I got to see my Boob Fairy for the girl's final checkup. She was SO happy with her work, and so am I honestly. Her first reaction upon removing my robe was along the lines of, OMG they look so real! And they do! 

We had a fabulous visit with the doctor and then the nurse grabbed me for my final photos. We chatted lightly on the way to the photo room. We arrived and I  undid my robe. She gasped, and was like, oh Kelly they look great, I'm so happy for you!

I think the work my doctor did was amazing. My boobs are bigger, and they look and feel entirely real. But also the lipo work she did was an art unto itself. I am so thrilled with my body now and am grateful to have been able to do this.

This surgery also super shifted how and where my body gains weight. I'm currently at my heaviest weight in quite some time. But my boobs keep getting bigger, as well as my hips and butt. I said to Jodie the other day, um I'm not really seeing a down side to gaining weight right now. Maybe that'll happen once work starts again and I want to fit into all of my dresses! 😆 🤣 😂 😹
Ahhh the drive to Vegas! Vegas baby! My therapi Ahhh the drive to Vegas!

Vegas baby! 

My therapist asked why we are going to Vegas.... my answer..... debauchery! She told me to have fun! 

Actually it's to visit friends with only a side order of debauchery!
We finally got chickens! We finally got chickens!
Part of my morning dog walk..... Part of my morning dog walk.....
After having surgery on his wee-wee, I took pity o After having surgery on his wee-wee, I took pity on leaf and let him sit in the front seat with me. 

What happened you ask? He probably snagged his foreskin on some barbed wire. He likes the cows! However we only found out because Jodie found some blood spots around the house. 

He's a softy initially, but once he's comfortable, he's very rough and tumble. Thus the 2nd photo of him running at a cow this morning. 

He's our crazy little boy and we love him!
8 years ago today I took my very first step in my 8 years ago today I took my very first step in my physical transition and I changed my hormones. By the end of day one I knew I had finally discovered what I had been missing for my entire life. 

I am so very thankful for my wife and my sister. Without their support I know things would not have gone this well. 

I will take this time again, to remind anyone who cares, that the number one reason for detransition, is lack of social support. A person's spouse, or family, or job, or neighbors, or teachers, or friends, or society being against people being trans is typically why people stop their transition. People continue to see themselves as transgender, they just for whatever reason, cannot overcome the challenges that their society puts in front of them.

Transgender humans have always been here and we always will be, regardless if it makes anyone happy or not. Will you personally accept the full diversity of humanity or will you only accept the aspects that you like?

My mom was persecuted by her mom for being left handed. My grandmother told my mom that her left handedness was a sign of the devil. It never stopped my mom from being left handed. It just made my mom hate herself and her mother a little more.
Today marks my 7th anniversary of me legally becom Today marks my 7th anniversary of me legally becoming me. What did life give me? An amazing experience with a baboon of all things. I walked to the glass, and they followed me and sat down. Eventually I too sat, and we chilled! 😆 🤣 😂 😹 

At the gift shop, I searched and searched, but alas, there was no baboon plushy, boo! 

Okay so at this time of absurd political and societal onslaught of transgender people, and my 7th anniversary of having to go to court and prove to a cis judge that I am woman enough to be legally declared as a woman, I just want to say, that was the hands down, BEST DECISION OF MY LIFE. 

Oh, and the number one reason that people detransition? That's because of lack of societal support. So to all my "friends" that left me during that time, fuck you assholes. I hope you're miserable! 😆 🤣 😂 😹
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