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Children are better seen than heard; really?

August 30, 2026

When I was eight years old I went to my parents and said, hey, I think this part of my arm is larger than the other side, while pointing towards my left deltoid. I had noticed this weird lump on my arm for a while prior to going to my parents. The thing was that I didn’t really want to go to my parents and tell them that I thought that anything was wrong. I mean I was raised by…

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A Day of A Wonderful Reality

August 7, 2026

For the last 30 years today was a day of harsh reality, but now it is not that any longer and that is a lovely thing. The new school year has started back up and I am not a part of that. Which is sad, but amazingly awesomely fabulous! I am so excited about what the future is going to bring for my wife and I. We have no idea what that is going to be, but it is going…

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Eight Years of Provocative Public Speaking

July 22, 2026

October 25th, 2018, that was the first time I did any public speaking on transgender issues. IT was at a local community college, College of the Sequoias. I was part of a panel where students were allowed to ask us any questions they wanted. I think I was one of about 8 people or so. The fist one woman speech I did was the next semester in March of 2019 at UC Merced. It was one year later when COVID…

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My, what’s time? Merely a tick on the clock.

September 6, 2024

Wow, 6 months huh? Geez Kel, do ya think maybe this dusty ol place is looking a little deserted? Huh, funny how things shift, life moves on, changes occur………. At one point in my life online resources were of the utmost importance, it was really the only place I could consistently be me. So it’s not as if I don’t appreciate this blog, or the internet, it’s just that once one begins living life in the real world, that was…

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Nope, I didn’t Disappear Off the Face of the Planet

February 7, 2023

Wow Kel, do you think you could update your poor readers more often than once every four months? Um, maybe, but honestly, I really don’t know, so sorry but not sorry enough to change my habits and patterns! Well then, what has been happening in my life since I last updated y’all? First off, I’m down to dilating once per day and life is SO much more enjoyable! Well, it is more enjoyable for the less dilating, but it is…

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I Used to do Things, Now I Dilate

November 21, 2022

I’ve never been great at keeping up with this blog and it has never been my intention to be a daily blogger, but I used to be able to post a bit more than I have lately. I also used to work on a little side project called TransCisTer Radio. Oh and I had started to do some art, remember that? I think I shared some of my art here, but maybe not. I used to do lots of projects…

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Educating my Dermatologist on Gender Dysphoria

September 13, 2022

When I first started seeing my therapist I told her that I didn’t have any gender dysphoria. It didn’t take me very long to follow that up with, so by the way, what exactly is gender dysphoria? She explained it simply as a disconnect between one’s birth gender and one’s perceived or mental gender. I again repeated, yeah, no, I don’t have that and don’t think I have ever felt that way. I think a good question that I could…

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