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Children are better seen than heard; really?

August 30, 2026

When I was eight years old I went to my parents and said, hey, I think this part of my arm is larger than the other side, while pointing towards my left deltoid. I had noticed this weird lump on my arm for a while prior to going to my parents. The thing was that I didn’t really want to go to my parents and tell them that I thought that anything was wrong. I mean I was raised by…

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A Day of A Wonderful Reality

August 7, 2026

For the last 30 years today was a day of harsh reality, but now it is not that any longer and that is a lovely thing. The new school year has started back up and I am not a part of that. Which is sad, but amazingly awesomely fabulous! I am so excited about what the future is going to bring for my wife and I. We have no idea what that is going to be, but it is going…

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Eight Years of Provocative Public Speaking

July 22, 2026

October 25th, 2018, that was the first time I did any public speaking on transgender issues. IT was at a local community college, College of the Sequoias. I was part of a panel where students were allowed to ask us any questions they wanted. I think I was one of about 8 people or so. The fist one woman speech I did was the next semester in March of 2019 at UC Merced. It was one year later when COVID…

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Outfit for 7-5-26, Another Skirt and Tank

July 5, 2026

Sweater – ?? – Similar by Grace Karen @ AmazonTank Top – WHBM Forme – Similar @ AmazonSkirt – Max Studio – Similar @ Nordstrom Rack – Similar @ AmazonShoes – Born-O-Concept Shirra – Similar @ AmazonBelt – ?? – Similar @ Amazon Hello lovely people. Today’s outfit photo was actually taken about 2 years ago. Yeah I know, but I’ve got a seriously large backlog of past outfit photos that I never bothered to actually post. And I have…

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I don’t actually write a blog, do I?

July 1, 2026

Top – Bodysuit by Express – Similar on AmazonSkirt – ?? – Similar on AmazonFlip Flops – Sketchers – Rare Elegance – Similar on Amazon – QVC Hello again to anyone who happens to see this post. I am not quite sure if anyone is going to see this post, but we’re just going to roll with it. Oh and yes at some point I will give a bit of a life update, k? My outfit today is a very…

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A little manual assistance for some of that fat redistribution.

January 7, 2025

One of the most hoped for aspect of changing one’s hormones is the effect of fat redistribution. (Every time I write that word I want to insert a letter A somewhere into it, lol.) Anyhow, what this basically means, is that male bodies, ie, bodies operated by testosterone, tend to deposit fat in the belly region, and they get the sort of classic beer belly that hangs over the belt buckle. Whereas female bodies, bodies operate by estrogen, tend to…

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My, what’s time? Merely a tick on the clock.

September 6, 2024

Wow, 6 months huh? Geez Kel, do ya think maybe this dusty ol place is looking a little deserted? Huh, funny how things shift, life moves on, changes occur………. At one point in my life online resources were of the utmost importance, it was really the only place I could consistently be me. So it’s not as if I don’t appreciate this blog, or the internet, it’s just that once one begins living life in the real world, that was…

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