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1 Year Anniversary on Estrogen

July 3, 2018

I really had no idea.  If I would have known, I would have gone this route long ago.  How different life would be is unimaginable.  It’s sad, actually.  I know, I shouldn’t feel bad for things that have happened, for it was only those things that brought me to the path I’m on.  Who knows what would have been now, if that had not ever been then.  At least it happened eventually. Oh, I’m sorry, I’m waxing on dramatically without…

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A Minor Massive Fear

June 8, 2018

It was with a weird disconnected calm that I heard my wife describe the horror I had been dreading since 2010.  A student came up to her and described how all of the students were talking about that I had been discovered online.  They apparently found my Facebook page which led them here to this little ol blog of mine.  At one point in my life this would have been awesomely devastating for the two of us, at least mentally. …

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How is Jules Really Doing?

February 24, 2018

Are the benefits worth the cost?  The question just sort of popped up out of nowhere, which is fairly commonplace for me.  I have a tendency of bringing things up out of left field, tossing them out there for the world to absorb, and then sort of sitting back and observing the ramifications. I thought this question was much better than the one that most people ask me, ‘but seriously, how is Jules really doing?’  I don’t like the implications…

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Quitting Estrogen? Hell No!

January 23, 2018

I’m curious, after getting your driver’s license did anyone ever ask you, hey, have you ever thought about what might happen if you decide to stop driving?  What will happen to you?  Have you thought about all of the possible ramifications of continuing to drive?  Did you make sure to keep your bike and your bus pass?  How about getting your teeth fixed?  Did anyone tell you to be careful of what you were doing when you got braces?  Or…

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My Outfit – Tall Maroon Boots

January 8, 2018

Tunic – White House Black Market – Similar Leggings – White House Black Market – Similar Boots –  Unisa  – Similar Belt – Mossimo – Similar Jacket – Max Studio – Similar Do you love the boots?  I do.  I don’t think I have a very good picture of them though.  Hmm… let me see if I can figure one out. Awesome huh?  Well I think so!  That was why when I was last shopping at DSW in Dublin, CA,…

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What A Strange/Awesome New World

December 8, 2017

While on the way to work today I was pondering who is left in my circle of people that I have not had the official talk with.  For quite some time now I have been making the assumption that everybody in my life knows that I am transgender.  But I have not had the official talk with every single person.  There were just a few people hanging around that I did not think it to be important to have the…

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It’s Not Estrogen, It’s Me on Estrogen

October 24, 2017

It not estrogen, it’s me on estrogen, that’s what I would have said, if I could have one of those brains that actually thinks in real time.  For me though my thoughts often come hours, day, months, years, or even decades after the fact.  Things are constantly replayed within my mind, over and over, on endless loops, with me trying out different responses to see how they fit and pondering their implications. Lately it seems as though more often than…

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