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The Adjacent Possible

January 27, 2017

I have been gathering some ideas to do a write up on how to shop successfully at outlet malls while being transgender.  Though the snarky part of me keeps saying, that’ll be a short article; to shop successfully you need to just do it!  There ya go!  Short, simple, sweet, and to the point!  But then, I do understand that I do have a bit of flair in shopping well.  There might just be some tips I could offer to…

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Skinny Jeans & Cheetah Heels

October 18, 2016

Top – White House Black Market – Similar Jeans – 7 For All Mankind(Slim Cigarette) Shoes – Kelly and Katie – Similar This was a funny evening outfit for me.  We had a really full weekend with all sorts of things to get done, but I wanted to go out to dinner.  I spent the morning working furiously on all of my various jobs around the house and decided to get ready around two in the afternoon.  After I got…

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Black & White Tunic

October 14, 2016

Tunic – White House Black Market – Similar Jeans – Levi – Denizen  Belt – ???? – Similar Shoes – Flojo – Similar I can never remember who makes the belt that I own!!  I always feel bad when I take these photos and I can name the manufacturer of everything that I am wearing except for my belts!  It is a bit funny.  I used to be an obsessive tag remover, but for the last few years I have…

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Sometimes Being Out Is a Responsibility I Don’t Want

September 19, 2016

Is it easy to be out or in the closet?  I think this is something that many of us part timers ponder.  I mean if you are facing certain transition, then the question is moot.  You’re not going to transition to the other gender entirely and spend your time sitting in a closet all by yourself.  Life couldn’t possibly get done that way. For those who are just an occasional cross dresser, then again, I think the question is easily…

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Mr. Unhappy

September 16, 2016

Do you know what a cystoscopy is?  Well I didn’t until recently.  For your sake, I really hope you don’t ever have to find out what it is.  Just as a fair warning, this post might be a bit more graphic in nature than some of my other posts. So…. fair warning…… it may get a bit uncomfortable for some…… if you want to stop reading, now may the time!!!!  Last chance… okay, here we go. I have been having…

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Bracelets, Bracelets, & Even More Bracelets!!!

August 10, 2016

Work, work, work!!  I’m so funny!  Why?  Well….. I didn’t have to work a couple of weeks ago, but I volunteered for the contract, and thus worked I did.  Then this past week, the same thing happened.  Next week, I’m back to my regular employment.  All of this wondrous work has left me a bit stressed out, a bit more moolah in the bank, but a bit tense.  So how did I spend my weekend?  Working!  Ha! Well, is it…

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Like a Machine

November 16, 2015

Many years ago I was debating if I should buy an X-box.  Jules kind of insisted that I go for it.  When I questioned her as to why she told me that she rarely sees me sit down and just relax and do nothing and so that maybe by having an X-box I would actually sit down occasionally!  Funny.  I did buy the X-box, but I could not tell you the last time I actually played on the darn thing!…

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