Well well well. It was what a couple of weeks ago when I explained why I was seeking out counseling for my gender variance? I think, hmm…. let’s check. Yup here it is. It took a bit of time but I got setup with someone who I thought was good. But things took a turn that I did not want it to. She wanted to work on CBT (look it up) for some inner critical voices. I let her know…
Knowing what size you are can be a super important thing for anyone who is transgender. I think this is primarily caused by doing much of their clothes shopping remotely. Transgender people often rely on catalogs and online purchases. Thus, you need to know your size before you order anything. You have to put it into the darn forms before they will send you anything. Plus, there’s added pressure for TG individuals as buying anything brings with it a certain…
Hat – Slouchy Beanie The second compliment that I received today was “nice hat.” This was said to me by the gentleman that was standing behind me in line as I waited to make my next appointment with the dermatologist. As soon as I finished up, I turned around, smiled at the man behind me, and he complimented my hat. I really like this hat as well and have received more than one compliment on it. About a half…
I have been gathering some ideas to do a write up on how to shop successfully at outlet malls while being transgender. Though the snarky part of me keeps saying, that’ll be a short article; to shop successfully you need to just do it! There ya go! Short, simple, sweet, and to the point! But then, I do understand that I do have a bit of flair in shopping well. There might just be some tips I could offer to…
Top – White House Black Market – Similar Jeans – 7 For All Mankind(Slim Cigarette) Shoes – Kelly and Katie – Similar This was a funny evening outfit for me. We had a really full weekend with all sorts of things to get done, but I wanted to go out to dinner. I spent the morning working furiously on all of my various jobs around the house and decided to get ready around two in the afternoon. After I got…
Tunic – White House Black Market – Similar Jeans – Levi – Denizen Belt – ???? – Similar Shoes – Flojo – Similar I can never remember who makes the belt that I own!! I always feel bad when I take these photos and I can name the manufacturer of everything that I am wearing except for my belts! It is a bit funny. I used to be an obsessive tag remover, but for the last few years I have…
Is it easy to be out or in the closet? I think this is something that many of us part timers ponder. I mean if you are facing certain transition, then the question is moot. You’re not going to transition to the other gender entirely and spend your time sitting in a closet all by yourself. Life couldn’t possibly get done that way. For those who are just an occasional cross dresser, then again, I think the question is easily…