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Does a Training Bra Provide Any Actual Training?

April 27, 2017

Knowing what size you are can be a super important thing for anyone who is transgender.  I think this is primarily caused by doing much of their clothes shopping remotely.  Transgender people often rely on catalogs and online purchases.  Thus, you need to know your size before you order anything.  You have to put it into the darn forms before they will send you anything.  Plus, there’s added pressure for TG individuals as buying anything brings with it a certain…

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Nice Hat

March 31, 2017

Hat – Slouchy Beanie  The second compliment that I received today was “nice hat.”  This was said to me by the gentleman that was standing behind me in line as I waited to make my next appointment with the dermatologist.  As soon as I finished up, I turned around, smiled at the man behind me, and he complimented my hat.  I really like this hat as well and have received more than one compliment on it.   About a half…

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The Adjacent Possible

January 27, 2017

I have been gathering some ideas to do a write up on how to shop successfully at outlet malls while being transgender.  Though the snarky part of me keeps saying, that’ll be a short article; to shop successfully you need to just do it!  There ya go!  Short, simple, sweet, and to the point!  But then, I do understand that I do have a bit of flair in shopping well.  There might just be some tips I could offer to…

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Skinny Jeans & Cheetah Heels

October 18, 2016

Top – White House Black Market – Similar Jeans – 7 For All Mankind(Slim Cigarette) Shoes – Kelly and Katie – Similar This was a funny evening outfit for me.  We had a really full weekend with all sorts of things to get done, but I wanted to go out to dinner.  I spent the morning working furiously on all of my various jobs around the house and decided to get ready around two in the afternoon.  After I got…

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Black & White Tunic

October 14, 2016

Tunic – White House Black Market – Similar Jeans – Levi – Denizen  Belt – ???? – Similar Shoes – Flojo – Similar I can never remember who makes the belt that I own!!  I always feel bad when I take these photos and I can name the manufacturer of everything that I am wearing except for my belts!  It is a bit funny.  I used to be an obsessive tag remover, but for the last few years I have…

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Sometimes Being Out Is a Responsibility I Don’t Want

September 19, 2016

Is it easy to be out or in the closet?  I think this is something that many of us part timers ponder.  I mean if you are facing certain transition, then the question is moot.  You’re not going to transition to the other gender entirely and spend your time sitting in a closet all by yourself.  Life couldn’t possibly get done that way. For those who are just an occasional cross dresser, then again, I think the question is easily…

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Mr. Unhappy

September 16, 2016

Do you know what a cystoscopy is?  Well I didn’t until recently.  For your sake, I really hope you don’t ever have to find out what it is.  Just as a fair warning, this post might be a bit more graphic in nature than some of my other posts. So…. fair warning…… it may get a bit uncomfortable for some…… if you want to stop reading, now may the time!!!!  Last chance… okay, here we go. I have been having…

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