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Will I Still Blog After My Surgery? Reply hazy, try again.

October 16, 2021

Which brings me to a question. Once this milestone is attained and your body and mind finally conform, do you anticipate continuing your blog? I used to follow “Faith’s Adventures” by Faith DaBrooke. After her surgery was completed, she took what at first was billed as a hiatus. Now its gone on for a couple years and i’m wondering if she’ll ever be back. I hope you stick with us to share your views on life from the other side!…

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Summer is Over, Now We Settle In

August 23, 2021

Well summer is officially over. Well okay maybe not so much when the temps are still like 108 F. But for me it still is the season of summer is over as we have returned to the classroom. Which for me is an amazing and lovely thing for more than one reason. Yes I like working with my students. Yes I actually like my job. However it is way more that makes me thrilled at returning to work this year.…

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My Trans Reality Isn’t Free of Growth

July 27, 2021

When I tell people that at times I have a super difficult time with my dysphoria and being out in public they often scoff at me. They tell me that I pass perfectly well and that there is absolutely no reasons whatsoever that I should not feel totally and fully comfortable at all times in all settings with anybody. Wow, that is a tall order. To pass at all times in all settings anywhere? How about naked? Okay, well then…

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Wait, What, I made it to 6 Months?

June 25, 2021

Guess what today is? Just the longest time I have ever gone without nicotine since I was 12. Damn. I love that I quit as a result of my transition. It has caused my life to be so wonderful that I actually want to live. That’s fairly huge. Thanks for being here. I appreciate your help. All of you! Being as this is my blog, I’ll give you a little something extra than I did with this post on FB.…

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Reader Questions – Facing Fear

March 23, 2021

I got a super nice letter the other day. Unlike most of my blogging I actually respond to my emails in a fairly timely manner, lol! I thought y’all might be interested so here you go……  You are so successful, confident and beautiful, I hope you have a moment to straighten me out.  Im _____ 26 male. I  am so naturally feminine,  my interests,  my mannerisms and in many ways my physical appearance.  I  literally ache inside with the desire…

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THE Surgery

January 3, 2021

In January, almost a year ago, I met with Dr. Satterwhite in SF. Don’t know who he is? Well he is going to perform my gender surgery. Gender surgery? Yes. It has gone by a variety of acronyms, none of which are without issue. Suffice it to say this is THE surgery. Yup, that one. THE one, lol. Still confused, well then maybe that’s for the best and we will leave it at that. The date that I chose for…

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Um, Thanks?

November 22, 2020

The other day I received the following email: Followed you for a very long time and proud of your accomplishments, but thinking of taking you off the list of places I go often. I know you’re busy-you lead a full life for sure-and it shows. Rare new bits and pieces, and not updated to often like it once was. So,time to move on. Thanks for the ride. My response at first was that I cried. After a bit I got…

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