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A Human Narrative

April 6, 2018

What do you picture when you hear the phrase “gang member?”  How about the phrase “founding member of a gang?”  How about hearing someone explain to you, in person, standing not five feet away, that they have possibly taken the lives of human beings in the commission of crimes?  And yes it was left open as to the exact number.  I got the feeling that possibly not even he knew the exact count.  So?  How about it?  Thoughts on who…

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Hiya Dermatologist, Yup They’re Boobs

March 17, 2018

That morning I had to giggle as I was getting ready.  I was taking a half day at work so that I could visit the dermatologist.  What had me giggling was thinking back to a day, oh so long ago, that I was worried about wearing women’s underwear to the doctor’s office.  I mean, what if they found out?  What if they were to somehow find out that I was wearing women’s underwear!  Oh the horror, the horror!!  At one…

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Outfit – My Usual State

February 17, 2018

Top – New Balance – Similarish @ Amazon (Looks cute at least!) Jeans -Levi:Denizen @ Target Shoes – New Balance (Arishi) – @ Amazon – @ Famous Footwear Hat – @ Amazon Here you see me in my more natural state.  I thought it would be good to finally post up something from how I actually look in a more day to day appearance.  This was inspired by two elements 1 – somebody mentioned to me that they don’t ever go out because they…

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Openly Transgender

February 2, 2018

I’ve been having some odd conversations as of late.   One of them was with my neighbor, who is approximately 65-70 and a retired teacher.  She and I have a funny relationship together.  Mostly we see each other while walking our dogs at 5 in the morning in the pitch black along our small backcountry road that people drive way too fast on.  I think we earned each other’s respect when she and I banded together and took care of…

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What A Strange/Awesome New World

December 8, 2017

While on the way to work today I was pondering who is left in my circle of people that I have not had the official talk with.  For quite some time now I have been making the assumption that everybody in my life knows that I am transgender.  But I have not had the official talk with every single person.  There were just a few people hanging around that I did not think it to be important to have the…

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Prostate Confusion

July 11, 2017

Well now, it has been a little bit since I came clean here about what is going on with me and my prostate, but there appears to be a lingering confusion as to what is happening with my prostate.  Several people I have spoken to have been greatly concerned that I am dealing more with obtaining hormones than dealing with my health.  Some of these people have been close friends and some have been well meaning internet friends. I have…

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My Outfit – Geometric Tunic

July 6, 2017

Tunic – White House Black Market – Similar Belt – Mossimo – Similar Shorts – Guess – Similar Sandals – Born O Concept – Similar Doesn’t it totally look as though this dress is super short?  I mean way too short for me to be wearing, unless of course I’m wanting to give somebody a free peep show?  That would be gross!  I have actually heard of some trans people doing that on purpose.  Well, at least that is how others described them, trans.…

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