When I first started wanting to go out while dressed as a woman, Jules and I were both pretty afraid of something bad happening to me. I had spent many, many, many! years hiding who I am and what I liked to do. For about 10-15 years the only person that knew about my gender variances was my wife. We were both terrified of anyone finding out. Eventually I shoved myself out the front door and somehow managed to start…
Do you ever feel as though you are standing there in a futile fight against the immense forces of nature? There have been a few times in my life when I have been face to face with an unstoppable force that I felt like an ant trying to stop a tidal wave. I am reminded of that song Just what makes that little old antThink he’ll move that rubber tree plantAnyone knows an ant, can’tMove a rubber tree plantBut he’s…
Saucony – Famous Footwear Today I am more than bit nervous. Why? Well because I am at work with female shoes on. The shoes that I have pictured above are the ones that I am currently wearing. Saucony – Similar And aren’t they totally different from the male shoes that I normally wear, which are the ones pictured above? OMG, they are so totally different! I mean, can you see the pink splash of the Saucony symbol across the side…
As of right now I have yet to even see the Bruce Jenner 20/20 interview or his other stuff on E, but I am thanking him anyways! Why you ask? The other day I received a text from my sister who told me that she watched the interview and she HAD to talk with me. It is not unusual for me to receive a text from her or for she and I to speak with each other; we have a…
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Spousal Acceptance
April 25, 2015There are often a vast number of factors involved in how one’s spouse will react to a reveal of being transgender. And I cannot possibly be an expert on all possible spousal responses to such a personal and delicate manner. All I do know is how things have gone with my spouse. I have lived this life and am quite aware of what it has taken to get to where I am. And to get to where I am has…
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My Wife & I Respond to A Reader’s Questions – Lesbian Couple?
April 13, 2015(I think it is time for an updated picture of us, huh?) Recently I received the following comment from a reader:You have very good taste in fashion! I’m the wife of a closeted (mostly fetish) crossdresser and stumbled on your blog. It’s certainly another side of things that I’m enjoying reading about.If it’s okay to ask, you look very authentic but I was wondering if this doesn’t bother your wife? I like being part of a heterosexual couple and I like…
For about 7 months now, I have been mentoring a new worker at my job, and she is fabulously talented at what we do. I wish I was as good as she is when I started. Her passion and drive is truly admirable. Many of you are aware that I have been going to work for many years now with my nails painted all of the time. No, I don’t just go for clear, or muted tones, I go for…