Growing up, I learned that people can hurt me and I was hurt often. So it is no wonder that as a younger adult I looked at most of humanity with quite a bit of suspicion. I never felt as though other humans could be trusted to do the “right” thing and certainly I could not trust other humans to actually go out of their way to be nice to meaningless strangers. And thus I find it quite odd that…
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Outfit for Friday 4-11-14 & A New Camera
April 11, 2014Top – Max Studio Tank – Mossimo Belt – Target Skirt – 36 point 5 Shoes – Born O Concept I so struggled putting this outfit together. I like the end result but it took me several iterations to get it to this point. I began with the skirt and tried about 5 or 6 different tops until I got something that I thought looked fairly good. The skirt is a new acquisition. I got it on my last shopping…
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My First Meeting With Another CD
March 25, 2014Dress – Black House White Market Shoes – Nickles I finally met another cross dresser and you know what? It was totally, completely, and entirely, normal! Fairly recently I joined crossdressers.com and decided to continue reaching out. If you are familiar with the site I am sure you know of Jennifer, from Jenniferathome. She gives great opinions and advice and I have enjoyed reading her posts. Anywho, one day she emails and asks if I would like to meet up…
Skirt – Charlotte Russe Top – Wrapper Shoes – Fitz Well Purse – Coach Unseen – Rago girdle I absolutely love this skirt, but at the same time it really bugs me quite a bit. I love it, because I think it is super cute. It is nice and tight and stretchy, so it helps me look more curvy. I also really like the color. Yes, obviously I like red, but I really like this red. It is super red.…
Sweater- DKNY cozy Tank- Target Skirt – American Apparel Leggings- American Apparel Shoes- Madden Girl Jacket- Guess I really thought this would be a super cute outfit when I planned it all out, but alas upon reflecting on the pictures, I am not so sure. Yeah, I like all of the elements separately, but altogether I think it might be a bit too much. Though my doggie sure does not seem to mind: Though admittedly he is always just excited…
About eight years ago I unknowingly decided to begin forcing myself upon myself; that was about the time that I began to fully dress as a girl. At the time, it just seemed like the thing I should do. Before then I had dressed in various articles of women’s clothing and had done a variety of other things, like paint my fingernails, but I had never tried to emulate a woman. I began doing it because I wanted to, but…
What is it about cross dressing that makes so many of us complacent with deceiving others? I thought about this, and about writing this post, and just bashing those that deceive but then I thought about myself. And I am pondering if just by being me, am I actively trying to deceive those around me? Am I girl, nope, but occasionally I dress as one, and pass myself off as one. Isn’t that deceit? Yes it is. I will grant…