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When Does It Pass Gender Non-Conforming?

June 15, 2015

The heat has hit here in California and I am currently staring at a thermometer reading of 105!  For the past few summers it has occurred to me that I absolutely hate guy shorts!  I was explaining my issues with male shorts to my sister and she came up with the term of “shants.”  I was calling them half pants, but shants has a much nicer ring to it!  Thanks sis! I think it may have been just a year…

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Gender Non-Conforming – Purse

June 7, 2015

I love this little Coach purse.  I don’t know if I have shown it before on this blog or not.  I like it because it is small but large enough to fit everything that I need.  It also has a nice long strap and I love wearing it with it over my head and across my body.  It is actually my most handy purse. One of the things I really enjoy doing with it is using it while dressed as…

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Outfit for 5-11-15 – Zippers!

May 11, 2015

Skirt – H&M Top – Charotte Russe Sweater – 89th & Madison Shoes – Guess Belt – Mossimo I got this skirt a little bit ago at H&M and absolutely love the zippers on it.  The zippers totally sold me on the skirt. I love the look of them and that it adds a little bit of edge to it.  But I struggle a bit with my body image while wearing skirts that have that little bit of flare at…

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Spousal Acceptance

April 25, 2015

There are often a vast number of factors involved in how one’s spouse will react to a reveal of being transgender.  And I cannot possibly be an expert on all possible spousal responses to such a personal and delicate manner.  All I do know is how things have gone with my spouse.  I have lived this life and am quite aware of what it has taken to get to where I am. And to get to where I am has…

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Outfit for 4-19-2015 – I Have Arms!

April 20, 2015

Dress – White House Black Market Shoes – Taryn Oh goodness, I SO love this dress.  I love the fit of this dress so much, I bought a 2nd one that is basically the same dress, just black with white polka-dots.  But I like this one a little bit more than the other one.  This is my favored one because I there is something about this dress that immediately made me less self conscious of my arms. Arms are one…

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My Wife & I Respond to A Reader’s Questions – Lesbian Couple?

April 13, 2015

(I think it is time for an updated picture of us, huh?) Recently I received the following comment from a reader:You have very good taste in fashion! I’m the wife of a closeted (mostly fetish) crossdresser and stumbled on your blog. It’s certainly another side of things that I’m enjoying reading about.If it’s okay to ask, you look very authentic but I was wondering if this doesn’t bother your wife? I like being part of a heterosexual couple and I like…

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Coming Clean to A Coworker!

March 26, 2015

For about 7 months now, I have been mentoring a new worker at my job, and she is fabulously talented at what we do.  I wish I was as good as she is when I started.  Her passion and drive is truly admirable. Many of you are aware that I have been going to work for many years now with my nails painted all of the time.  No, I don’t just go for clear, or muted tones, I go for…

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