Top – Wrapper – Similar Jeans – Seven For All Mankind: Slim Cigarette Shoes – Naturalizer: Believe Belt – Mossimo – Similar First off, I hope you all had a wondrous Thanksgiving, if you actually celebrate that day! Jules and I had a good day. We stayed home and cooked all day long! It is kind of crazy because we rarely have anyone over, but we always cook the entire meal just for the two of us. So generally we…
While driving up to Northern California to retrieve my puppy from hunt school it finally occurred to me why I am a cross dresser – the show Bosom Buddies conditioned me into believing that cross dressing was not only acceptable, it was actually fun! Uhh….. yeah…. totally kidding folks! But I did like that show. I remember watching it and thinking it was funny, but never thinking, hmm….. I should try dressing up as a woman! Nope, not once. This…
Unfortunately due to the unpopularity and controversy surrounding my gender variances I do not feel comfortable revealing what I am actually employed in doing, which sucks when you think about it! Anywho…. I work with a large and varied clientele and there are also many different levels of workers at my job. I am somewhat higher up in the ranks due primarily to my education level and the amount of experience I have in my field. I also am a…
Undershirt – Next Level Jeans – Levi – Denizen Shoes – Converse – Similar Since I am on a comfort kick lately I thought I would share with you a picture of what I am wearing at this very moment and this is, to me, ultimate comfort! I know, I know, it is a totally horribly crappy photo. But I decided to take it while I actually am at work, and the only viable location to do so was in…
What does it mean to be comfortable? I get it when you are talking about things like shoes, or clothes, or temperatures and the like, but when it comes to my gender it becomes much more difficult for me to put into words well. I write little bits and blurbs and then quickly erase them as they don’t seem to capture the essence of what I am feeling. I have tried talking with cisgender folks about it and they really…
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October 21, 2015Goodness, did she just say what I think she said? I pondered that question as I walked away from the Shisheido counter in Macy’s. It had been a strange dichotomy of people’s opinions and I just wasn’t that sure I had heard her correctly. Earlier, Jules and I had walked up to the Clinique counter to get some new eye makeup remover. It was gift time at Clinique and thus of course there was quite a line backed up. I…
For many, many years Jules told me that she was worried because I appeared to be anorexic to her. Why? Well because no matter how much weight I have lost I have never been satisfied and have always told her that maybe I would be happier if I lost a bit more. This has worried her and minding her concerns I have always tempered my weight loss desires. But it has always made me ponder, what exactly is wrong with…