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My Outfit – Geometric Tunic

July 6, 2017

Tunic – White House Black Market – Similar Belt – Mossimo – Similar Shorts – Guess – Similar Sandals – Born O Concept – Similar Doesn’t it totally look as though this dress is super short?  I mean way too short for me to be wearing, unless of course I’m wanting to give somebody a free peep show?  That would be gross!  I have actually heard of some trans people doing that on purpose.  Well, at least that is how others described them, trans.…

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What’s Up?

June 29, 2017

Goodness me, how time flies!  I know, I frequently lament my super busy life.  Woe is me, right?  Ah well.  I think that it is because I feel bad for not updating my blog more frequently.  I know that there are at least a few people out there who enjoy my blog and gain something from reading it.  So for you, constant reader, I am sorry that I am so lax in updating things.  Lets see if I can at…

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Medical Info – Maybe TMI

June 8, 2017

Disclaimer – I am about to discuss some issue that some may find inappropriate, and I certainly see as pretty personal.  But I have received some questions, so I thought maybe you might want some answers! A couple of people have expressed concern that I appear more concerned about transition related medication than I do the health of my prostate.  Can I take a moment to clear up that misconception? Here is the full story, okay?  For years I have…

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An Update on Counseling

June 5, 2017

Well well well.  It was what a couple of weeks ago when I explained why I was seeking out counseling for my gender variance?  I think, hmm…. let’s check.  Yup here it is. It took a bit of time but I got setup with someone who I thought was good.  But things took a turn that I did not want it to.  She wanted to work on CBT (look it up) for some inner critical voices.  I let her know…

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A Concerning Flaw

May 31, 2017

Some of you may know that I am currently on a clothes shopping diet.  This idea was born of wanting to offer my wife some sort of solidarity with her choice to be on a food diet.  The idea, that I came up with, is that I would refrain from clothes shopping while she is food dieting. For the most part things are going quite well.  I am finding lots of good clothes combinations that I had not considered before.…

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My Letter to a Counselor & Friday Kittens

May 19, 2017

I had an interesting day yesterday that I thought I would share a bit about before I presented most of my kitten photos.  Let’s start with, do you know that I have never seen a counselor regarding my gender issues?  Yup, never have.  Never felt a need to actually.  But never mind that now right?  Anywho….. I am in kind of an interesting situation in that I am wanting to begin to speak to someone but the nearest person to…

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Does a Training Bra Provide Any Actual Training?

April 27, 2017

Knowing what size you are can be a super important thing for anyone who is transgender.  I think this is primarily caused by doing much of their clothes shopping remotely.  Transgender people often rely on catalogs and online purchases.  Thus, you need to know your size before you order anything.  You have to put it into the darn forms before they will send you anything.  Plus, there’s added pressure for TG individuals as buying anything brings with it a certain…

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