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Nope, I didn’t Disappear Off the Face of the Planet

February 7, 2023

Wow Kel, do you think you could update your poor readers more often than once every four months? Um, maybe, but honestly, I really don’t know, so sorry but not sorry enough to change my habits and patterns! Well then, what has been happening in my life since I last updated y’all? First off, I’m down to dilating once per day and life is SO much more enjoyable! Well, it is more enjoyable for the less dilating, but it is…

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I Used to do Things, Now I Dilate

November 21, 2022

I’ve never been great at keeping up with this blog and it has never been my intention to be a daily blogger, but I used to be able to post a bit more than I have lately. I also used to work on a little side project called TransCisTer Radio. Oh and I had started to do some art, remember that? I think I shared some of my art here, but maybe not. I used to do lots of projects…

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Educating my Dermatologist on Gender Dysphoria

September 13, 2022

When I first started seeing my therapist I told her that I didn’t have any gender dysphoria. It didn’t take me very long to follow that up with, so by the way, what exactly is gender dysphoria? She explained it simply as a disconnect between one’s birth gender and one’s perceived or mental gender. I again repeated, yeah, no, I don’t have that and don’t think I have ever felt that way. I think a good question that I could…

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And So It Begins – Patient Task Email No. 0

April 16, 2022

Two days ago I received the first email from my GCS surgeon’s office regarding things I need to complete for my surgery this summer, um, woo-hoo! There have been many things in this process, so it isn’t as though this really the first thing, it is more like thing number 429 or some such thing, lol. Okay, maybe not that many things have had to be done, but it kind of feels like it sometimes. The email informed me that…

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I Wont Let My Tears Stop Me Anymore

February 21, 2022

I walked out of White House Black Market in tears. I don’t think they were discriminating against me, but I honestly couldn’t be sure. Regardless, they really did not care about customer service, and that was really a huge selling point of their store. Typically WHBM has nothing short of excellent customer service. But not on this day. On this day, I left the dressing room quite annoyed. I walked up to the manager and told that I didn’t like…

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Marriage, Again

February 7, 2022

So…… I asked again, and she said yes again. This time we’re thinking maybe Vegas, summer of 2023, with kick ass wedding dresses that we couldn’t afford when we first did this in 1996. Guests? Maybe, maybe not actually. Pictures? Oh yes, for damn sure! Then? Off to an epic honeymoon of which we got none the first go round. Basically I’m stoked! (he-he, just for you Bunny.)…

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Menstrual Products and My Misunderstood Childhood

December 11, 2021

I used to think I was so weird, but I had absolutely no context whatsoever to explain absolutely anything that I was experiencing. One of the things that I could never really wrap my head around was my fascination with menstrual products. My sister is about two and a half years older than me and while growing up we shared a bathroom. She was always upset because I took so long in the restroom and she could never understand what…

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