It has taken quite some time to formulate my thoughts about what Paula, from Paula’s Place, commented on my wife’s post, and then began a discussion on Crossdressers Forum, so I’m sorry for the tardiness of this post. Anyways here is what she had to say: “…I suspect that we cross dressers are a pretty selfish self absorbed bunch…” I believe that there is nothing about crossdressing that makes the act inherently selfish in and of itself. What I think…
Wedding day 2005 Today is the 7th anniversary of when my wife married me as Nadine. It was a completely symbolic thing mind you, but it was still very beautiful and highly remembered by both of us. At the time that it occurred, our actual marriage seemed ready to fall apart. Jules and I have always deeply loved each other but have also always had a very difficult time of getting along. Maybe you are familiar with the Eminem lyrics:…
I Had Anticipated Her Question
July 20, 2012While driving to the campground for a few days of camping with our friends I pictured our friend A asking me about my fingernails. If you have read my blog some you may already know that I frequently having my fingernails painted even while in guy mode. I often get questions about them and I generally simply tell people that I like to have them painted. This response seems to be the most direct and the one that people accept.…
A little bit ago, a few weeks maybe, I decided to email an old friend and share with her that I am a cross dresser. I am not 100% sure what compelled me to do so but there were many things that I know influenced me. One big one is that I have been lurking over at her facebook page and watching her push herself to do all sorts of things. It has been very inspiring. I emailed her my…
Living Undefined
June 28, 2012I have read much about how GGs say that trans girls don’t really know what it is like to be a woman. That unless you are born a woman you don’t know what it is and just because you make yourself look like a woman through clothes or surgeries and hormones, you are still not a real woman. I agree I have no idea what it means to be born as a real woman. But… There is another aspect to…
Recently I have learned of an interesting activity conducted by Tom Wujec. Here is the set-up: You are given 25 pieces of dry spaghetti, a yard of string, a yard of tape, and a marshmallow. The goal is to build the tallest tower that will support the marshmallow. You are supposed to work in teams of four and try to build a taller tower than the other teams. Oh and you also only have 18 minutes to complete the challenege. Tom…
I want to be a jeannie. I want to be able to wiggle my nose or blink my eyes or wave my magic wand and change anything that I want to. I want to blink my nose and be a hot sexy girl. I want to blink my nose and be a tall handsome rugged looking man. I want to wiggle my nose and be a dog. I want to change myself into an eagle and fly through the sky…
