It has been about 30 years since I have dressed as a woman on Halloween, but today I decided to go for it once again. The first time was back when Jules and I were in high school and having just been dating for a few years. We decided to throw a party and go as each other. I enjoyed my evening but never dressed as a woman again for about another twenty years! Wow, I wish I would have…
Undershirt – Next Level Jeans – Levi – Denizen Shoes – Converse – Similar Since I am on a comfort kick lately I thought I would share with you a picture of what I am wearing at this very moment and this is, to me, ultimate comfort! I know, I know, it is a totally horribly crappy photo. But I decided to take it while I actually am at work, and the only viable location to do so was in…
What does it mean to be comfortable? I get it when you are talking about things like shoes, or clothes, or temperatures and the like, but when it comes to my gender it becomes much more difficult for me to put into words well. I write little bits and blurbs and then quickly erase them as they don’t seem to capture the essence of what I am feeling. I have tried talking with cisgender folks about it and they really…
Sweater – 69th & Madison – Similar Tank – WHBM – Similar Skirt – H&M – Similar (as shorts) Shoes – Naturalizer: Believe I built this outfit mainly around these shoes; which are totally awesome by the way! While Jules and I and were driving to DSW she asked what I was looking for. My answer was a pair of black heels that I could actually wear for the day, walk around in comfortably, and not get any blisters, or…
Acceptance makeup Out and About passing society
You Look Much Cuter in Your Other Picture (Actually Finished this Time!)
October 21, 2015Goodness, did she just say what I think she said? I pondered that question as I walked away from the Shisheido counter in Macy’s. It had been a strange dichotomy of people’s opinions and I just wasn’t that sure I had heard her correctly. Earlier, Jules and I had walked up to the Clinique counter to get some new eye makeup remover. It was gift time at Clinique and thus of course there was quite a line backed up. I…
For many, many years Jules told me that she was worried because I appeared to be anorexic to her. Why? Well because no matter how much weight I have lost I have never been satisfied and have always told her that maybe I would be happier if I lost a bit more. This has worried her and minding her concerns I have always tempered my weight loss desires. But it has always made me ponder, what exactly is wrong with…
