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Marriage, Again

February 7, 2022

So…… I asked again, and she said yes again. This time we’re thinking maybe Vegas, summer of 2023, with kick ass wedding dresses that we couldn’t afford when we first did this in 1996. Guests? Maybe, maybe not actually. Pictures? Oh yes, for damn sure! Then? Off to an epic honeymoon of which we got none the first go round. Basically I’m stoked! (he-he, just for you Bunny.)…

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Menstrual Products and My Misunderstood Childhood

December 11, 2021

I used to think I was so weird, but I had absolutely no context whatsoever to explain absolutely anything that I was experiencing. One of the things that I could never really wrap my head around was my fascination with menstrual products. My sister is about two and a half years older than me and while growing up we shared a bathroom. She was always upset because I took so long in the restroom and she could never understand what…

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Will I Still Blog After My Surgery? Reply hazy, try again.

October 16, 2021

Which brings me to a question. Once this milestone is attained and your body and mind finally conform, do you anticipate continuing your blog? I used to follow “Faith’s Adventures” by Faith DaBrooke. After her surgery was completed, she took what at first was billed as a hiatus. Now its gone on for a couple years and i’m wondering if she’ll ever be back. I hope you stick with us to share your views on life from the other side!…

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I am Far Less Sad but Not Truly Happy Yet

September 26, 2021

The first picture was 3 months of estrogen, the second is 4 years and 3 months of estrogen. I really like estrogen, hehe!A good friend recently remarked that the closer I am getting to my surgery date, the worse things seem to be for me. For many who have known me for a long time it may very well appear that way though in reality a few different things are going on. First off, I am willing to be more…

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Summer is Over, Now We Settle In

August 23, 2021

Well summer is officially over. Well okay maybe not so much when the temps are still like 108 F. But for me it still is the season of summer is over as we have returned to the classroom. Which for me is an amazing and lovely thing for more than one reason. Yes I like working with my students. Yes I actually like my job. However it is way more that makes me thrilled at returning to work this year.…

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My Trans Reality Isn’t Free of Growth

July 27, 2021

When I tell people that at times I have a super difficult time with my dysphoria and being out in public they often scoff at me. They tell me that I pass perfectly well and that there is absolutely no reasons whatsoever that I should not feel totally and fully comfortable at all times in all settings with anybody. Wow, that is a tall order. To pass at all times in all settings anywhere? How about naked? Okay, well then…

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