Hi there. My name is Nadine. I am a married, 40 something male, that enjoys cross dressing. Thank you for visiting my blog. The intentions of this blog is to share what I do and try to impart my itty-bitty bits of knowledge about fashion..
There are so many different opinions about cross dressing. Even within those that share my desires,we often vary greatly in our own views about it. We tend to be on the fringes of society and we marginalize ourselves further by creating subdivisions within our own group. I think we all need to be more tolerant and open with what we do.
With that being said, you may notice that I don't really show my face. Being as things are the way that they are, I currently can't risk pictures that may compromise my identity. It has the unfortunate possibility of jeopardizing my employment. I don't think there is anything that my employers could do really, but if my clientele were to be aware of my habits, that could potentially be an issue. So that's what is up with that.
My personal variation of cross dressing:
I enjoy dressing, completely, head to toe, wig and all as a woman, and then going out in public. I also dress as a woman and just say in. During the times that I am dressed as a guy, I have both my ears pierced. I also occasionally will have my fingernails painted. I wear women's underwear exclusively. My eyebrows are waxed, but not too extremely; I kind of like larger brows on my face as they are not that dark. My cross dressing is also a part of my sexuality, but none of that will be discussed at this forum except to say that I am completely heterosexual. I really like women, especially my wife.
Now one thing that seems to differ from me and some other cross dressers. I like to dress as a woman, but I also like to dress as a man. I enjoy many things while dressed as a man. I like working in my woodshop, splitting wood, working in the yard, going duck hunting, water skiing, backpacking, shotgun shooting, and a whole slew of other things.
Why I do it:
Honestly I have no idea. I do not think a woman is trapped inside me. I don't think that I should have been physically created as a girl. I have no idea if my brain chemistry is tweaked so that I feel more girl than boy. I really don't know why. Early in my life, my sister and I used to dress up just in playing, and I really enjoyed it. I also used to have to shave my body for swimming, and I really enjoyed it. My first girlfriend painted my fingernails along with her really cute friend helping, and I really enjoyed it. There are other various little things. Does that help explain why I like it now? I'm still not really sure why I liked it then, but I know that I did. I know that I like to do it and it does not infringe upon anyone else. If you don't like it, don't do it.
I enjoy all comments, but if you aren't polite, I won't post it.
Wow it has been quite some time since I have updated this page. I recently reread it and realized that I was not showing my face when I wrote this About page but now I am. Obviously I changed my mind about not showing my face. Somewhere along the way I decided that showing my face is not nearly the risk that I once thought it was.
I am still concerned about my employment, but I think I am a little more able to handle any concerns that my employer may have and defend myself in court, if need be. I don't really think that it would ever come to that but I think I am strong enough now to handle it if I needed to.
So yeah, for what it is worth, now you get to see my face.